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Easy Roasted Veggies

2011-01-30T20:20:00.002-05:00

One of my favorite go-to sides is roasted vegetables. So easy and so flavorful! This is perfect way to get your veggies into your day.

My favorite roasted veggie "mix" is a combination of zucchini, mushrooms, garlic, onions and Roma tomatoes. You can use any vegetable really...potatoes, asparagus, etc. Cooking times may vary depending on the vegetable, but generally the directions below are accurate for most varieties.

1. Preheat oven to 450 degrees Farenheit.

2. Chop selected vegetables to be about 1/4" to 1/2" thick.

3. In a mixing bowl, combine vegetables and drizzle with extra virgin olive oil. Gently mix to coat.

4. Season with salt and pepper (& other herbs, if desired). Gently mix again.

5. Spread evenly in a roasting pan (I use my Pampered Chef Stoneware Bake Pan). Make sure it's a single layer and the pan is not over-crowded. If so, vegetables will steam instead of roast.

6. Allow to roast in oven for 25-30 minutes, checking occasionally. They are ready when just beginning to brown and carmelize. Sometimes, I broil them at the last minute for just a few seconds so they crisp up a little.

These are delicious as a simple side. But, tonight I tossed them with some whole wheat rotini, feta cheese and a little more olive oil. For lunch tomorrow, I will wrap the cold, left-over vegetables in a tortilla with a little hummus for a tasty and health lunch!

Salsa Verde Soup

2011-01-21T10:20:00.000-05:00

This month I made it a goal to make at least one new recipe each week and share the food with others. This week, I made a scrumptious soup that I just loved. It's adapted from a Rachael Ray recipe, but I made a lot of changes, actually. I shared the soup with one of my co-workers and she loved it as well. Here it is!

Salsa Verde Soup

1 lb boneless, skinless chicken breast

1 (16 oz.) jar of medium salsa verde

3 c. crushed tortilla chips

1 (4.5 oz) can of green chilis

1 c. shredded cheddar cheese

sour cream

1. In a large pot, combine the chicken with enough water (or even chicken broth!) to cover; bring to a boil, lower the heat, cover and simmer until just cooked through, about 30 minutes. Strain the broth into a medium bowl and shred the meat.

2. Return the chicken and broth to the pot and stir in the 3 cups crushed tortilla chips, the green chilis and the jar of salsa verde. Bring to a simmer and cook, stirring, until thickened, about 5 minutes.

3. Stir in the cup of shredded cheddar cheese and season with salt. Divide among bowls, sprinkle with more cheese and top with more salsa verde, pepper and sour cream.

Makes 4-6 servings.

A most wonderful time

2010-12-30T07:58:00.000-05:00

I took a long break for the holidays (obviously). It was a hectic month but a great one as well. Work was ever-stressful, but I found peace and rest with my family and friends. I ate a lot, laughed a lot, reflected on Christ's love a lot.

I can't believe another year is drawing to a close. As I head into the new year, I'm praying for renewed passion, renewed joy, renewed vision for His plan for my life. I'm asking for more of Him and less of me.

I love that a new year is dawning. With it, so much hope and so much expectation comes. I am excited about things that will be new, things that will change and the things that are steadfast.

"But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 3:13-14).

Laudable Links: 3rd Edition

2010-12-03T10:58:00.002-05:00

Can you believe it's December? So, in honor of "the most wonderful time of year," this Laudable Links is Christmas-themed!

RECIPES

Cathie Filian's How to be Domestic blog always has great ideas. I love these recipes for chocolate-dipped goodies. They would be so cute wrapped up to give as gifts.

(photo from How to Be Domestic)

CRAFTINESS

This adorable yarn ball wreath is super simple to make. The Pleated Poppy's tutorial is easy to follow.

(photo from The Pleated Poppy)

The Crafting Chicks have a great tutorial for a cute-as-pie Christmas Countdown Garland with fun daily tasks to prepare for the big day!

FLUFFINATION (this phrase was coined by my friend Wanda and means "the art of fluffing the home")

PeasandCarrotsToo's etsy.com store has these adorable Christmas tree napkins for sale.

(photo from PeasandCarrotsToo on etsy.com)

The Inspired Room has a great post about How to Decorate a Christmas Mantel.

GOOD FOR THE SOUL

Advent season is upon us. I posted earlier in the week the link to the outline that I follow. Here it is again.

Another book that is an excellent resource is by Nancy Guthrie. Come Thou Long-Expected Jesus can be found HERE.

Traditions

2010-12-01T08:22:00.028-05:00

Christmas is officially here! I love this time of year. It's full of fun and meaningful traditions and the opportunity to love on your family and friends a little more! Over the past few weeks I've been taking part in some "traditions." Some are silly and fun while some are serious reminders about the true meaning of this time of year, but all remind me how blessed I am.

An annual shopping trip with friends around Thanksgiving...12 years running.

Celebrating Thanksgiving and taking family pictures.

Decorating the tree while watching a favorite Christmas movie.

Reading Scripture for Advent. I follow this outline.

Drinking Peppermint Mocha creamer in my coffee out of my Christmas mugs.

What traditions do you and your family have around this time of year?

HELP! Has anyone seen this table?

2010-11-17T08:05:00.000-05:00

Hey, all! I need help finding a match for this end table. I got this one at TJ Maxx and cannot find for the life of me where it's originally from. Have you seen it?

(Please forgive the doggies toys...they are everywhere!)

Time (for a) Change

2010-11-16T08:11:00.000-05:00

Since daylights savings time ended and time changed a little while ago, I have been thinking about how quickly life changes with its ebbs and flows. More than a year ago, I moved into this apartment and, for the first time, had a place of my own. In the past year, many things have happened. Some friends got married, some friends had babies, I adopted a dog, I became a member of a great church, there have been changes within my workplace, etc.

But, honestly, I feel as if I have not changed and not grown like I really want to, especially in my relationship with the Lord. I want my relationship with him to be ever-growing and ever-changing. I want to learn new things from Him everyday, and I want to find new-to-me gems from His Word. But, this year, I have felt stagnated. Like I'm treading the same water over and over again. Learning the same lessons again because I apparently didn't learn them well enough the first couple of times. When something happens again and again after I think I've let it go, I begin to wonder what God is doing. Is this a test or is it something new that He is orchestrating in my life? I want answers.

It's not that I need change in my personal or professional life (though I wouldn't argue if that were to happen), but I need movement in my walk with Him. I need a revelation of Jesus. A revival. A renewal. A deeper understanding of my identity in Christ.

While I was in college, the mother of one of my "favorite families" told me about a prayer guide book that she had used for several years. I immediately went online and ordered it. I have used it for several years. It's called For the Family by Sylvia Gunter. You can find it here.

In the little booklet are amazing prayer starters and resources, but there is also a "Renewing Your Mind in the Word" section. With this tool, you read five Psalms and one chapter of Proverbs each day. It's so cool because daily you are provided with promises from Him, praises to Him, wisdom from Him and a sound reminder of Who He is and who you are in Him. What a blessing God's Word is!

So as I am trying to weed through what God is doing in my life right now and what He is trying to teach me, these Psalms and Proverbs continuously remind me that His plan is higher and His Word is continually alive and active, speaking to all circumstances and life situations. In Him are all the answers. He is the answer.

Dig in.

Laudable Links: 2nd Edition

2010-11-03T06:24:00.000-04:00

RECIPES

Kelly over at Kelly's Korner also has a recipes Web site that she updates whenever she's found a recipe that her family particularly loves. I want to try her recipe for Taco Soup and Garlic Cheese Biscuits.

This recipe for No Bake Cookies was a standard of ours in India because it's egg-free (for our vegetarian friends and neighbors). I think Skip to My Lou has a good version of the recipe.

(photo from Skip to My Lou)

CRAFTINESS

Tatertots and Jello has a great idea for a Thankful Fall Garland to adorn your home and remind you of all the things you are thankful for this year.

(photo from Tatertots and Jello)

This post over at Tip Junkie has dozens of tutorials and patterns for tote bags. I love a good tote bag!

FLUFFINATION (this phrase was coined by my friend Wanda and means "the art of fluffing the home")

Better Homes and Gardens has some great ideas on how to "warm up" your home for winter to make it all nice and cozy. I'm planning to use some old sweaters that I no longer wear and make throw pillows.

(photo from BHG.com)

The Crafting Chicks featured a dining room hutch makeover that I am going to do for my home to serve as a china cabinet. I absolutely love it!

GOOD FOR THE SOUL

As we are entering the season of Thanksgiving, please remember all that the Lord has done.

Glorious Staycation

2010-10-29T16:49:00.000-04:00

Today, I took the day off. Just to be. To rest. To spend time in the Word. To get organized. To love on my pup. He enjoyed napping in the sun.

I have been on the road so much this year that I can't even tell you how many miles I've put on my car. Every weekend it's something. A friend's wedding, an engagement party, a family gathering, a visit to a friend that I haven't seen in a while. All wonderful, blessed events.

But, I'm tired. Exhausted, really. My car is falling a part. It needs to rest, too. :-)

So, today I stayed home, and I have had the most excellent day so far. I have been organizing my guest bedroom closet that houses all my crafty things, and I even pulled out some things so that I could be creative today.

This morning, I was praying and just asking God for answers about some decisions I need to make in the near future. And, over and over, He spoke to my heart and said, "Seek!" I read Jeremiah 29:13 several times and let it sink into my heart. "You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart."

I wanted to create myself a little reminder of what God spoke to me this morning to take and put on my desk at work. I got out the paints and canvases and paint pens. Here is the final product:

The rest of the day promises more productivity, rest, chips and salsa for dinner and the What Not to Wear season premier. I love the occasional day off!

A heart for orphans

2010-10-23T10:56:00.001-04:00

Since I can remember, I have known that I will one day be an adoptive parent. I can remember the very day when I knew without a doubt that the Lord had called me to adopt and be a part of orphan care as my life's work. It was the summer after my freshman year of college . I was driving to my 8 a.m. statistics class (what was I thinking?), and I was listening to Atlanta's 104.7 The Fish. The morning show had Steven Curtis Chapman as a guest, and he was telling his family's adoption story.

I was so enthralled by his family's story, and I could sense his heart for orphans just by the tone in his voice. The love in his voice. He talked about the organization that he and his family had started called Shaohannah's Hope (now Show Hope) and their mission to provide adoption grants for families waiting to bring their children home. I ended up sitting in my car through the first hour of my class, knowing that I, too, felt that same sense of calling to care for orphans, to adopt and to share Christ's love with orphans.

Last Saturday, I had the opportunity to volunteer for Show Hope at the "A Night with the Chapmans" concert in Thomasville, Georgia. It was a joy. Their heart, their honesty, their passion for the Lord and for adoption was made so clear. I met a few families who had received adoption grants from Show Hope as well. It was an excellent experience.

During the concert, Steven Curtis and his wife Mary Beth shared their story of adopting their three Chinese daughters and the loss they experienced two years ago when the youngest was tragically killed in an accident. God is doing amazing things through this family.

Mary Beth talked about the day they adopted their first Chinese daughter, Shaohannah. Her words resonated so clearly to me and should be the reason that we, as believers, should care about the world's orphans. She said that, as she was standing in a hallway, about to received Shaohannah into her arms, the Lord clearly spoke to her and confirmed that she and her family were called to adopt.

She thought to herself, "This little girl had no name, no inheritance, no future. And, now she is our daughter, and our family is giving her that." Then she heard God say to her, "Don't you see, Mary Beth? That was you. You were an orphan. You had no name, and I gave you a name. You had no inheritance, and I gave you an inheritance. No future, no hope, no love. Now you are a daughter of the King!"

Such a sweet family, whose story is amazingly beautiful, tragic and full of grace. You can read more about their story in Mary Beth's new book Choosing to SEE.

There are more than 140 million orphans in the world. I encourage you to visit showhope.org, read Mary Beth's book, find out more about how you can make an impact on the world's orphans. Consider adoption. Become a partner in orphan care. Align your heart with God's.

"Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans...in their distress..." (James 1:27a).

A week & a half of Mondays...

2010-10-22T08:45:00.002-04:00

Sorry I haven't posted in a while. I feel like everyday has been Monday for about a week and a half. I have some posts in the works. So, I promise to return this weekend!

Much love and HAPPY FRIDAY!

The story of the 26-year "manfast"

2010-10-13T07:32:00.002-04:00

Today, October 13th, I am another year older. The big 2-6. As my brother put it, "in your 2nd quarter of a century." Thanks, Blake.

As a little girl, I thought that, by now, I would be married or at least about to be. I often thought, "26 would be a good age to get married," and it still could happen. But, alas, I have been unintentionally fasting from men for 26 years.

Yes. I am that girl. The one who has never had a boyfriend or really even been on a date. I am not a freak. Nor am I weird or socially awkward. I'm pretty darn cute, too. But, no guy has ever asked. Therefore, I've never dated. Not that I haven't wanted to. Oh, there have been times throughout my life that there was this "one guy" who fascinated me. I would hope upon hope that he could be interested in me. But, apparently not. Not that I ever knew, at least.

I thought for years that there must be something wrong with me. That it wasn't fair. That I was missing out in some way. That God didn't care. But, now that I am older, I know myself a little better. I know now that He was protecting me all along. He knew my heart better than I did. If one of those guys along the years had actually reciprocated interest, I would not have been able to experience some of the amazing things that God has allowed me to experience. Like going to The University of Georgia, perhaps. Like living in South Asia for two years.

You see. I am that girl. The hopeless romantic. If just one of those guys had expressed interest, I would have been head over heels, done for and so attached to a man that I probably would have neglected my relationship with my Savior. I, honestly, would have chosen that man over the Lord. And, God knew that. And I am so thankful for that. I look back and see that my life has been filled with love and joy, acceptance and encouragement, fun and adventure. It has been fulfilling and satifying.

No man will ever be able to provide that security and fulfillment.

Yes. I long to be married. And, one day I am sure I will be. But, for now, the Lord is molding and shaping me into the kind of woman He wants me to be. The kind of woman that will prioritize her relationships, putting Jesus first.

I pray often for my future husband. There are really only three qualities that I ask God to give me in my future husband. 1. He must never love me more than he loves Jesus. 2. He must know God's Word in order to lead, teach and correct me and our future family from it. 3. He must have a desire to adopt. I believe that Lord will honor these prayers.

There are times I struggle with patience, with contentment and, honestly, with jealousy. I, in my flesh, am ready for that season of my life to begin. But, I know He has His best for me. And until then I'll "...be joyful always; pray continually give thanks in all circumstances for this is God's will {for me} in Christ Jesus (1Thessalonians 5:18-18, emphasis mine)."

Great Grapevine

2010-10-09T09:34:00.005-04:00

Grapevine wreaths are so versatile, and craft stores like Michael's sell them for fairly cheap. Late in the summer, I bought two with plans to make a fall wreath and, perhaps, a Halloween wreath.

My fall wreath turned out great! I got the metal insert that says "Autumn Blessings" from Hobby Lobby as well as the garland of acorns and pine cones that I wrapped around the wreath. I found the garland of fall leaves at the dollar store. I love it!

For Halloween, I really like what I came up with. I just thought of the idea to do a wreath this way randomly one day, and I am so proud of it. I took a black feather boa that has silver "tinsel" in it and wrapped it around the grapevine. I secured it with black pipe cleaners. Then in the dollar section at Target, I found the glittery spiders and the glittery wooden word "Boo!" I used fishing wire to secure them into the wreath, allowing one to dangle. The final touch (that I hadn't done yet when I took this photo) was to put store-bought spider web on across the wreath. It turned out super cute!

What do your fall and Halloween wreaths look like? Post your link in the comments section, if you like!

Laudable Links- 1st Edition

2010-10-06T16:30:00.003-04:00

I am going to try to do a "Laudable Links" post at least once a month. We'll see how that goes! This month is fall-themed!

RECIPES

KraftRecipes.com has a great slow-cooker recipe for Three-Bean Turkey Chili that I made this week. It was super tasty! I put it in the crockpot during my lunch break, and it was ready to eat when I got home from work.

Try this delicious recipe for pumpkin cookies from Design Mom.

(photo from Design Mom)

Another recipe that I can't wait to try is Spicy Roasted Pumpkin and Sunflower Seeds from Joy the Baker. I'm going to the pumpkin patch this weekend and plan to roast some seeds on Sunday!

CRAFTINESS

This post from Tatertots and Jello has a great array of do-it-yourself ideas for fall and Halloween wreaths.

I love this idea for fall tea towels from Uncommon. It would be an easy applique project. So cute!

(photo from Uncommon)

FLUFFINATION (this phrase was coined by my friend Wanda and means "the art of fluffing the home")

Throughout the month of October, several bloggers are doing a "31 days" series. I'm following along with all of them, but I wanted to feature the "31 days to Autumn Bliss" series at The Inspired Room.

The Nester hosted a Fall Mantel Party recently. And even though I don't have a mantel, I can dream, right? Love this one by Domestic Princess in Training.

(photo by Domestic Princess in Training)

GOOD FOR THE SOUL

Of First Importance recently posted this quote by J.C. Ryle about Christ's death. Good one.

That's all! I hope you enjoyed the first edition of Laudable Links. Have a great fall evening!

Foodie Friday: Great Northern Bean Soup

2010-10-01T07:18:00.000-04:00

I'm linking up with Eliz's Foodie Friday today!

Here in South Alabama, we've had our first tease of truly fall weather. It's cold enough in the morning to wear a light sweater or jacket when I walk the pup, and it's chilly at night, too. I leave the door to my screened porch open while I am at home because it's just so fabulous and beautiful. The weekend promises more of this, in my opinion, perfect weather! I love it.

With all this fall weather comes the desire to make soup, of course. And, boy have a made a good bit of soup over the last few days. The recipe I want to share today is from my dear friend Jamie. It's easy, can be made in the crockpot if you want to and is perfect for the cooler weather. It sticks to your bones, if you know what I mean.

(Sorry, I don't have pictures.)

Great Northern Bean Soup

1 lb ground beef or turkey

1/4 c dried minced onion

1 tsp paprika

3 cans great Northern beans, drained and rinsed

1 can cream of mushroom soup

1 (8 oz) can tomato sauce

1 can Rotel tomatoes

Brown ground meat. Combine all the other ingredients. Allow to heat through and simmer. Eat and enjoy!

You can make ahead in the crockpot by putting the setting on low and allowing to cook throughout the day.

The man in my life

2010-09-28T07:57:00.001-04:00

Besides the two handsome men in this picture,

there's only one man in my life.

He's unbelievably handsome.

He waits by the window for my return.

He knows which team to root for.

He doesn't hog the whole couch.

He has a personality to die for.

And he makes my day every day.

Meet Bailey, the 4-year-old Yorkie that I adopted in April.

Ain't he just as cute as can be?

Your hand upholds the world

2010-09-26T19:06:00.001-04:00

I have been longing to put some pictures and such up on my walls for some time now, but I haven't had the time. But, yesterday, I had a glorious day at home and used the opportunity to do a little "fluffination" (also known as home decorating).

One of the items that I have wanted to hang is a drawing that my sweet friend and college roommate Daira drew for me. It's God's hands holding the world. I found the perfect spot for it between two sconces in my dining area.

This morning at Watermark Church in Ashford, Alabama, we sang a beautiful song called "Stronghold" written by my beautiful and talented friend Cassidy Robinson. It made me smile that we sang this song about His hands upholding the world the day after I put this picture on my wall. Do you think He's trying to tell me something?

Here is the You Tube video of Cassidy performing her song. The lyrics are so powerful, reminding us that He is our refuge and stronghold. And He holds everything in His hands.

You can find Cassidy's album entitled New Day on iTunes.

The Aroma

2010-09-26T11:24:00.001-04:00

My blog has been named "The Aroma" from its inception in 2007 when I began chronicling my time as a Journeyman in South Asia. When I came home, I felt as if I was starting over, and I didn't really have a focus for the blog anymore. I posted occasionally about the transition back to life in America, but I couldn't seem to find my niche in the blogging world. I knew I wanted to continue to be a blogger, but I had to re-focus my blog to fit my life now.

There are daily joys and challenges to being a twenty-something single woman, and I am continually praying for ways to be that aroma of Christ in this season of life- now that I am not overseas. What a better way to chronicle this than by blogging it? And, hopefully, in the process, I can be an encouragement to other single ladies.

I am single. I want to one day be married. I believe that I will be. In His time. But, I am not going to wait for that season of my life to arrive to do the things I enjoy: cook for others, be "domestic," offer hospitality, make my home beautiful and inviting, "mother" children, etc. And, gosh darn it! I'm going to use my pretty dishes that, for some reason, I thought I should store away until I got married!

John Piper says it nicely in Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood:

"The point is this: singleness has been a noble and courageous path for ministry ever since Jesus and the Apostle Paul chose it 'because of the kingdom of heaven.' It is no sign of weakness to want to be married. It is normal, and it is good. The courage comes when you sense God calling you to singleness (for this chapter of your life) and you accept the call with zeal and creative planning for His glory. "

So, welcome to the new and re-focused The Aroma blog! Join me as I try to joyfully live out the single life as His aroma "with zeal and creative planning."

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Re-focus

2010-06-10T20:00:00.000-04:00

After a very long and unintentional blogging break, it's my intention to begin again. But, with more focus. Things will be a little different than how I used to simply chronicle my daily life and adventures. Expect changes soon. Love you, bloggy friends!

LOVE is all you need.

2010-01-04T18:46:00.002-05:00

Merry and Bright

2009-12-27T14:12:00.026-05:00

Christmas 2009 was wonderful! My first Christmas with my family since 2006 was so much fun. It was spent enjoying the little ones, playing with new goodies (more on that to come), eating delicious food and relaxing. I decided to just put a slide show of pictures up since there are so many!

But perhaps my favorite image of the celebration:

The kit's "m" was missing, and we sure did get a laugh!

What can you do?

2009-12-22T22:07:00.001-05:00

My friend Sam shared this on his blog. Thought I'd share it, too.

Having seen all this you can choose to look the other way, but you can never say again, 'I did not know.' -William Wilberforce

A Good Word

2009-12-15T19:59:00.001-05:00

This was posted on my friends' blog. Quite perfect.

Christmas Tour of Homes

2009-12-14T09:50:00.054-05:00

Welcome to my apartment! Thanks for coming by!

When I started decorating this year, I was so excited! My first Christmas in America since 2006! My decor is a collection of things that I have added to through the years...collections that my mama started (Fitz & Floyd, for example), items from India and other countries that I have visited, ornaments from friends, etc. I hope you'll see a little bit of me.

The dining table

The kitchen

Living room

Favorite Ornaments: Indian lady in a sari from Pier One (my mama gave her to me when I was living in India)

My Radko ornaments. I have about 10. My parents started giving them to me when I was about 16.

Since I don't have a tv, I watch my nativity instead!

My bedroom: A whimsical tin tree and Santa viewing the globe (India, specifically).

The Georgia room: a snow globe of Athens and UGA Santa.

That's all for now...I have so many plans, things I'd like to change or add, but I am so happy to share my little bit of Christmas joy with you. Thanks for clicking!

May your days be merry and bright...

Yes,

2009-12-11T07:37:00.000-05:00

It's been two weeks since I've written. I'm horrible, I know. I could list off several excuses, but I don't know if you'd buy it. But, honestly, it's been two crazy weeks. I want to post pics from Thanksgiving, but I didn't have my camera and my mom's was stolen (bummer!). I have fun pics from an annual girls' shopping trip that I must post. But, that will come later this weekend. So, for now, I'll leave you with this:

Monday, December 14th. Be there or be a Scrooge.

Foodie Friday: Taco Soup

2009-11-27T09:20:00.003-05:00

I love soup at this time of year, and it's about all that I've been cooking lately. It' great for me because soup is usually quick, easy and easy to freeze. I'll eat it for 2 meals and freeze the rest for later. Love it.

For more great recipes, visit Eliz's Foodie Friday page.

Taco Soup

(adapted from cooks.com)

1 lb. lean ground beef or turkey (I prefer the turkey)

1 med. onion, diced

1 pkg taco seasoning

1 pkg ranch seasoning

2 large cans diced tomatoes, undrained

1 can of Rotel tomatoes, undrained

1 can of black beans, drained

1 can of pinto beans, drained

1 can of whole kernel corn, drained

Brown meat and onions. Drain.

Add your spice packets.

Add the corn, beans and tomatoes.

Simmer until warmed through and all the flavors combine.

Top with sour cream, shredded cheese, green onion, tortilla chips...whatever you like!

ENJOY!

Word for November- Manikin

2009-11-24T19:39:00.001-05:00

The second month's addition of my new word for each month (25 Things To Do While I'm 25):

manikin |ˈmanikən | (also mannikin)
noun
1. a person who is very small, esp. one not otherwise abnormal or deformed.
2. a jointed model of the human body, used in anatomy or as an artist's lay figure.

ORIGIN: mid 16th cent.: from Dutch manneken ( Middle Dutch mannekijn), diminutive of man ‘man.’

USAGE: See usage at mannequin .

USAGE: In English usage, the word mannequin occurs much more frequently than any of its relatives manakin, manikin, and mannikin. The source for all four words is the Middle Dutch mannekijn (modern Dutch manneken) ‘little man,’ ‘little doll.’ Mannequin is the French spelling from this Dutch source.

My example sentences:

1. I am a manikin. (Ha!)

2. Using mannequins instead of people in clothing commercials makes me not want to shop at that store.

More Precious Than Gold

2009-11-19T07:41:00.000-05:00

"The law of the LORD is perfect,

reviving the soul.

The statutes of the LORD are trustworthy

making wise the simple.

The precepts of the LORD are right,

giving joy to the heart.

The commands of the LORD are radiant,

giving light to the eyes.

The fear of the LORD is pure,

enduring forever.

The ordinances of the LORD are sure

and altogether righteous.

They are more precious than gold,

than much pure gold;

they are sweeter than honey,

than honey from the comb.

By them is your servant warned;

in keeping them there is great reward."

Psalm 19:7-11

The Bug Has Bitten

2009-11-17T20:30:00.000-05:00

The Christmas Bug has certainly bitten me. I am so excited to be in America for the holiday season!

Some of my pretty Radkos ready to go.

More to come...

Sweet Home Alabama?

2009-11-10T17:33:00.001-05:00

Y'all, this Georgia girl has moved to Alabama. Never in my life did I think I would live in Alabama, much less be so excited to. I live in the great town of Dothan, Alabama, just a quick one hour drive from my hometown in Georgia. Dothan has great restaurants, excellent shopping and is the home of the National Peanut Festival that just ended this past weekend.

I thought I'd give you a little tour of my new apartment. It's filled with pretties from all over the world, and I feel so at home there. I love it. My family and friends helped me move this past weekend. I can't thank Mama and Daddy, Sam and Wanda enough for all their help and creative talent.

From the door, you can see my bedroom. You go through the living/dining area to get there.

To the right of the entry is the kitchen.

To the left of the entry is the guest bedroom and bathroom. The bed is my parents' old bed, and most everything else is from my apartment in college.

From the entrance to the living area, you can see the computer niche on the left. I love this because I can't stand to have my computer in the living space or in a bedroom. Eventually, I'll have have a tv in that cabinet, but for now it's going to hold all my souvenirs from around the world.

The living room includes a bargain sofa and bargain coffee table as well as fun stuff from India.

On the opposite side of the living area is the dining room. I'll tell you more about that table in another post. It was a bargain, do-it-yourself project. So much fun!

Finally, my favorite, my bedroom. The "blanket" at the end of the bed is a tablecloth from India that was the inspiration for the color scheme. The bedskirt is a window panel cut in half and staple-gunned to the box spring because we couldn't find one that matched. I don't have a headboard yet, but I am planning to do something like THIS that I saw on bhg.com.

There's still a bit more I'd like to do and hang (for example, uh, curtains, Indian wall hangings/art and pictures of people I love). I still need a few major pieces of furniture in the bedrooms, but that will come in time.

You're welcome to come any time you want! I love hosting and serving up some South Asia and Southern hospitality.

The job so far...

2009-11-01T07:38:00.007-05:00

I love it!

After one week of working, I am sure that I am going to like my job. I am a payroll operator at PR Employer in Dothan, AL. Companies and businesses hire us to handle their payroll, human resources and risk management so they can focus their time and money on the product or service they offer. This week, I've been in training and orientation mostly, but towards the end of the week I started running payrolls and contacting the businesses that will be my personal clients. I love this because I get to build relationships with theses folks and try to assist them in any way possible.

I've found a place to live about a mile from my office and will be moving next weekend. More to come on that.

Happy Birthday, Brother!

2009-10-31T09:25:00.000-04:00

I gotta be honest. I'm a lucky girl. I have the best brother in the world.

And, today, he turns 20.

Yes, he's a Halloween baby. The year he was born I was five. I was so mad that he was born on Halloween because I thought that meant that I couldn't go trick or treating. I told everyone that night that my new baby brother was "a trick and not a treat."

But, truly, he rocks.

I GOT A JOB!

2009-10-23T10:33:00.008-04:00

So, #5 on my 25 Things To Do While I'm 25 list was to get a job. Well, yay! I got one (FINALLY). I get to work for a really cool company in Dothan, Alabama (less than an hour from my house) doing payroll and human resources-type work. I will commute for now. I'm super excited! I start Monday!

Word for October- gimcrack

2009-10-21T16:09:00.022-04:00

For my word of the month, per my 25 Things To While I'm 25 list (#19), I have chosen the word gimcrack. Here's the definition from my MacBook Pro's Dictionary application.

gimcrack |ˈjimˌkrak |
adjective: flimsy or poorly made but deceptively attractive : plastic gimcrack cookware.

noun: a cheap and showy ornament; a knickknack.

DERIVATIVES
gimcrackery |-ˌkrakərē| noun

ORIGIN Middle English gibecrake, of unknown origin. Originally a noun, the term denoted some kind of inlaid work in wood, later a fanciful notion or mechanical contrivance, hence a knickknack.

My example sentences:

1. Instead of going to Ulta, I bought a gimcrack straightening iron at the dollar store.

2. It kind of bugs me when people fill their homes with silly gimcracks like troll dolls and stuffed animals.

I love FALL!

2009-10-19T16:18:00.001-04:00

Y'all, these last few days in South Georgia have been fabulous...I've been loving cool (cold!) temperatures, enjoying abundant sunshine, getting to wear closed-toe shoes and jackets for the first time in a year and a half and eating pumpkin bread. Fall is my favorite season. Here are a few reasons why.

1. autumn decor. I love the colors of fall and the exciting ways people use them to decorate their homes. Some of my favorite autumn-inspired projects that I've seen in Blogland lately are Make It and Love It's Autumn Wheat Basket and The Inspired Room's Gilded Pumpkins (pictured below...image from Country Living). Better Homes & Gardens (BHG) always has a bunch of great ideas. Click HERE for a few.

2. clothes. When it's time to start wearing longer sleeves, closed-toe shoes, boots and cute jackets, I get really excited! Something about the fit of fall clothing is comfortable yet flattering. Some of my favorite fashion sites include InStyle.com (this is their fall fashions link), The Faithful Fashionista and Sensibly Styled. If you've never visited Shabby Apple, do so now!

Harness Boots by BeautifullyAdorned featuring Burberry

3. pumpkin-spiced goodies. Yummy pumpkin-spiced food screams "FALL!" I love the pumpkin bread recipe that I posted a few weeks ago and have made it several times. Some new things I want to try include Joy the Baker's Pumpkin Spice Pancakes (pictured below) and Design Mom's Pumpkin Cookies. Also, my friend Andrea in South Asia has some tasty recipes at SouthAsiaRocks.

4. soups. It's the best time of the year for tasty soups, stews and chili. I am almost always in the mood for a hot bowl of goodness at this time of the year. Try Eliz's Hamburger Veggie Soup (pictured below) or Simply Recipes' Spicy Vegetarian Chili. Find a host of other soup recipes at BHG.

...Foodie Friday...Homemade Pancake Mix

2009-10-16T09:15:00.031-04:00

For today's Foodie Friday @ Eliz in ATL, I want to share with you a recipe given to me by my friend Linda Sue.

In India, pancakes tended to be a go-to meal. Part of the reason for this is that Linda Sue gave us a plastic storage container with homemade pancake mix in it. All we had to do was add oil, water and an egg.

(this image came from the Web...)

It is so easy and so tasty! This mix keeps well in an air-tight container. You can eat pancakes about three times before having to make the mix again.

Pancake Mix

4 c. flour

4 Tbsp. baking powder

4 Tbsp. sugar

1 1/3 c. powdered milk

2 1/4 tsp. salt

TO USE: Simply mix 1 1/2 c. of pancake mix with 1 egg, 1 c. water and 2 Tbsp. of oil.

Last week in Athens...

2009-10-13T15:52:00.001-04:00

Sorry about being MIA this last week. I took a fun trip for the week to Athens. Highlights from the trip included lots of time with my little brother, a going away party for CT and reunions with the newest Mrs. Parham, DD, Sara and Mitch among many others. I stayed with the lovely girls of the "Taj Mahal" and had a blast. Thanks y'all...I'll be back soon!

CT's party was awesome!

A-group reunion...missing some of our lovelies, though.

I heart CT!

Mrs. Parham...I had so much Katherine time! It was great!

Daira...it's a girl this time!

Sara!

I couldn't be there for the wedding (though I was asterisk-ed in the program). But, I was there for Mitch's ordination. Congrats, friend!

25 Things...

2009-10-13T08:07:00.003-04:00

It's my 25th birthday! Yeah! A quarter of a century...

(me!)

In honor of this momentous occasion, I decided to make a list of

25 Things To Do While I'm 25
(in no particular order)

1. Take a Home Depot Do-it-Herself workshop.
2. See the Grand Canyon.
3. Read all of The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis.
4. Learn to crochet.
5. Get a job (for realz, y'all).
6. Make my India scrapbook.
7. Memorize Philippians.
8. Break the fast (out of my control but fun to hope for!).
9. Start baking my own bread.
10. Learn to French braid.
11. Take a beginner sewing or quilting class.
12. Participate in Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University program.
13. Read Jane Austen's Sense and Sensibility.
14. Do Pilates regularly.
15. Go on a volunteer mission trip.
16. Bake an apple pie.
17. Lose 10 pounds (ha!...right after I "bake an apple pie").
18. Take a fun craft lesson at Hobby Lobby or Michael's.
19. Expand my vocabulary by learning a new word each month and actually using it.
20. Start my own herb garden.
21. Take the train somewhere in the U.S. (perhaps to the Grand Canyon?).
22. Learn how to drive a stick shift.
23. Adopt a puppy (we'll see...).
24. Read Francine Rivers' Mark of the Lion series.
25. Visit the Georgia Aquarium in Atlanta.

Happy Birthday, Akka!

2009-10-02T09:34:00.000-04:00

Reba, my partner in crime and roommate in India, is celebrating a birthday today (along with Gandhi-ji!).

Akka = Big sister in Kannada, the language we learned.

Naanu niimanu pritisutiini YAAVAGALU!

Foodie Friday...Pumpkin Bread

2009-10-02T08:25:00.012-04:00

In honor of FALL, my recipe this week for Eliz's Foodie Friday is Pumpkin Bread. I first tried this recipe last year in India after my mama sent over a can of pumpkin. I found the recipe for this tasty treat on the Grace Violet blog HERE. Here's my adaptation.

Pumpkin Bread

1 (15 ounce) can pumpkin

4 eggs

1 cup vegetable oil

2/3 cup water

3 cups sugar

3 1/2 cups all-purpose flour

2 teaspoons baking soda

1 1/2 teaspoons salt

1 teaspoon ground cinnamon

(I add 1 tsp of vanilla extract to the wet ingredients.)

Preheat your oven to 350 degrees F (that's 175 C for you folks not in the U.S.). Grease whatever baking dishes you are going to use. I used my Pampered Chef stoneware mini loaf pan plus a cool little muffin tin-type thing that looks like pumpkins! I made 4 mini loafs and 12 muffin-sized pieces with this batter. Each mini loaf had about 1 cup of batter, and each muffin-sized piece had about 1/2 cup of batter.

In as big a mixing bowl as you have, mix the wet ingredients (pumpkin, eggs, oil, water and vanilla extract) with the sugar. Blend well.

In another bowl, combine the dry ingredients (flour, baking soda, salt and cinnamon). Then slowly add the dry ingredients into the mixing bowl with the wet ingredients until "just blended." Pour the mixture into your greased pans.

Bake for 30-40 minutes or until a toothpick comes out clean. Then, enjoy the goodness!

Easy as pie.

Thanks, Grace Violet, for the excellent recipe!

Happy Birthday, Eliz!

2009-09-30T07:45:00.001-04:00

"Ode to Eliz"

You're the kind of friend

Any girl would like to have.

You make me smile when things get bad.

Your gift is giving.

You are not selfish.

Those great care packages, I will always cherish.

Atlanta Fun Day!

Barberitos and Related!

We have so much in common.

Our friendship was fated!

You and me, as friends,

We fit like a glove...

because "every good and perfect gift (that's you!)

comes from above."

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SWEET MIDDLE E!

(Apparently, I am not a poet.)

I love you,

Little B

It's Fall, Y'all!

2009-09-28T18:15:00.000-04:00

Even though the weather in South Georgia still feels like summer, I'm still wearing my flip-flops and the leaves aren't changing yet, I know it's fall. And how do I know that?

This:

The smell of peanuts being picked.

I love the smell of the earth during harvest season for some reason. Whenever I smell it, it conjures up the memories of my childhood when I used to ride with my Papa Milton in his pick-up while he was hauling trailers full of just-picked peanuts to the local peanut company.

I also know it's fall because I'm eating a lot of these.

Boiled Peanuts

A Southern delicacy, boiled peanuts could probably be considered "the official snack food of the South."

If you're not from these parts and are unfamiliar with boiled peanuts, click HERE. You start by pulling up some green ("raw") peanuts, picking them off the plant and then washing them.

Place as many as you can get in a large pot to boil. Season with as much salt as you like and let them slowly boil for about three hours. If you prefer, add Cajun seasonings with the salt. It's your preference. Taste them along the way to see how they're coming. After they are completely boiled, let them soak in the brine for a while to absorb some more of that saltiness. Eat 'em warm or after cooled down with an ice-cold Coca Cola.

There's nothing like Georgia peanuts right from your papa's farm and boiled by your grannie.

Swagbucks, anyone?

2009-09-27T17:01:00.006-04:00

Not too long ago, I discovered Swagbucks .

Swagbucks is a "search & win" site where all you have to do is use it as a search engine, win "bucks" and then eventually trade-in the bucks for all sorts of cool prizes including magazine subscriptions, iTunes downloads, video games and consoles, books, memorabilia, airline miles and more. Currently, I am planning to accumulate enough Swagbucks to get a free year's subscription to Better Homes & Gardens magazine.

Now, you may say, "I love Google too much to use another search engine." Well, the Swagbucks search engine combines Google and ask.com for a completely thorough search. To see how great the search engine actually is, scroll down to the bottom of the page and try it out for yourself! You can even download a toolbar for any web browser to be able to access your Swagbucks search engine easily. For more FAQs, click HERE.

Give Swagbucks a try! I am sure you won't be disappointed. Click on the button in this post or on the right-hand size under "Swagbucks Rock!!!"

...Foodie Friday...Spicy Chicken and Black Bean Chili

2009-09-25T08:44:00.007-04:00

Today I am tagging along with Eliz's Foodie Friday. Last week I was in the mood for something spicy and filling, but I hadn't been to the store. So, I raided the pantry to see what I would come up with. This easy chili was made quickly with simple canned items that I almost always have on hand.

Spicy Chicken & Black Bean Chili

- 1 (15 oz.) can black beans, drained
- 1 (10 oz.) can Rotel (or diced tomatoes with chillies)
- 1 (8 oz.) can tomato sauce, Mexican HOT style (or regular if you don't like so much spice)
- 1 (4 oz.) can white meat chicken (The can pictured is more than you need unless you like it really meaty)

Add all the ingredients in a saucepan and heat through. Garnish with whatever you like: a dollop of sour cream, a sprinkle of shredded cheese, chopped green onion, etc. Serve with tortilla chips or crackers. Makes 3-4 large bowlfuls.

Yummy.

Khanna

2009-09-24T08:31:00.004-04:00

Khanna = Food

The other night I cooked Indian food for my parents. My mama experienced it's tastiness when she visited me last November, but my daddy had ever tried it. Until now...

Masala Dabba (Spice Box): Cumin powder, Jeera (cumin seed), Mustard seed, Cardamom, Turmeric powder, Red chili powder

The trick is the pressure cooker.

I made dal, rice, roti, lady finger and spiced up some chicken, too.

Daddy really liked it! Yay!

It was fun to cook Indian food again, and I was starting to miss eating it!

North Carolina...c'mon and raise up.

2009-09-19T18:08:00.004-04:00

After Saturday in Athens, AYo picked me up on Sunday and we road-tripped it to North Carolina, the Wake Forest-Raleigh-Durham area. We have a bunch of college and journeyman friends there who are attending Southeastern Seminary.

It was so great to see all those we know and love and really fun to see how we are all connected to each other in different ways. Love it.

This picture includes Leslie- college friend and journeyman, Lee- India journeyman friend (from same training group as Leslie) and boyfriend to my India roomie Reba, & Patrick- sem student, next door neighbor to Leslie, Auburn alum like Lee and boyfriend of my bestie Eliz

My other bestie Dana (who set Eliz and Patrick up)

Here's the UGA crew eating at Chick-fil-A (AKA best place in the world)...an old pastime of ours: Dana, AYo, MT, Leslie and me

I didn't get pics of the road trip up, but here are a few from the road trip home. We were stylin' in AYo's grandad's '93 S10, listening to music and sermons on my computer and eating chips out of a take-out box.

AYo was a champ because the ole baby blue S10 didn't have cruise control. We had too much fun playing the alphabet game, singing Disney songs, sharing the iPod earphones (until we realized we could just use my computer) and stealing coffee creamer from convenience stores.

One of the best road trips I've ever been on!

It's Saturday in Athens...

2009-09-14T15:49:00.006-04:00

and it's time to tee it up between the hedges!

As an alumnae of The University of Georgia, it is always a pleasure to get back to campus. This past weekend I was able to go to see my Dawgs play ball against the South Carolina Gamecocks. Either I am really lucky or people feel sorry for me and my boredom, but friends gave me their tickets to the game for free! So Saturday morning, I got up early and drove to Athens for the game.

I met up with my sweet friend Morgan and headed to the tailgate that our college ministry was hosting (sorry no pictures). I had an extra ticket that I didn't have a buddy for, but I found my good ole friend Collin. He joined me for the game. After the tailgate we went into Sandford Stadium, and I went to find my little brother Blake. I found this:

He and his buddies spelled out "Go Dawgs!" and even made it on tv. I give them props for sacrificial team spirit. I bet that body paint is annoying.

After seeing Blake, I made my way up to my seats in the upper level. This was the first time I sat in the non-student section or in an upper level. It was quite a different experience because the "non-students" don't stand the entire game and cheer like students do. I found myself being told to sit down a lot (not that I was that much in their way really...I'm not that tall). Here are two pics from my view of the pre-game show.

Finally, here come the Dawgs! It was an exciting game that we could have played a bit better. But, a win is a win. And it always feels great to beat Steve Spurrier!

How 'bout them Dawgs!

Love.

2009-09-10T07:47:00.000-04:00

When I'm bored, I sew.

2009-09-09T14:37:00.006-04:00

Since I am still on the lookout for a job (any ideas?!?...seriously), I am finding myself to be a bit bored lately. It's not that I am not enjoying every minute of being home with family and friends. I most certainly am! But, during the day when everyone is at school or work, I find myself cleaning a lot and being an obsessive organizer (can my closet be cleaned out one more time?).

So...I got the old sewing machine out and bought some cute fabric to do some sewing. I learned to sew in India and was able to sew some totebags and even a dress for my sweet little friend Lyla Joy. Now that I am home and have the accessibility to some amazing and helpful sewing products, I decided to expand my repertoire and try applique. I used this tutorial from Sew,Mama, Sew!. Here are some pics of my first adventure in applique!

I used Steam-A-Seam2 fusible webbing because it is two-sided and makes doing letters easier.

It's for Halloween!

Ironing the webbing on

Cute letters

Here is the finished product. The seams on the zig-zag are a bit janky, but keep in mind that this was my first applique and pretty much my first time sewing something that wasn't a straight line. I think I did pretty good for my first try!

Don't worry, Kacie. I made Lyla Joy one (or a few)!

Virginia is for Lovers...and reuniting with people you love.

2009-09-05T07:19:00.004-04:00

A little over two years ago, I had the privilege to spend two months on "the farm" in Virginia, training for my two years in South Asia. One of the best things about it was sharing the time with some super-cool people that were headed to destinations all over the world. Well, most of us completed our term around the same time and were able to reunite on the farm for one last hurrah as a group.

The Georgia girls- Lindz, me and Ayo - reuniting in the Charlotte airport.

I got to see Christy for the first time since I left. She's at the farm now, training for her term. I heart her and her hugs. She rocks!

More UGA fun: MT and Leslie Jane came over to Virginia from North Carolina to see us!

How cool is this? Rebecca and I met our India roomie's (Kaitlin) sister in Virginia! we heart Blythe.

Most of the group from my days at the farm.

Deb!

Angela, Christy, Lindsay and me

AYo, Lindz, me and Dan...Mike, we missed you!

Paige! Love. this. girl.

Sadness...saying goodbye to Reba

Dukha aiytu.

Atlanta Fun Day

2009-09-01T07:43:00.000-04:00

An old tradition...Atlanta Fun Day.

For the past few years (and when I am in the country), Eliz and I have "Atlanta Fun Day." Usually, we eat Mexican food, go to Ikea and just shop it up even if we don't buy anything.

This year, we started by going to the super cool Dekalb Farmers Market.

It's a world market, meaning they have products imported from all over the world. Of course, I love this because in all my travels I have found some pretty awesome food that I am starting to really miss. Here, I can find the right products to make my favorite dishes and even some of the exotic fruits available over there.

However, I did find mine and Rebecca's most hated fruit: jackfruit. It stinks!

I found *my* flag.

Sweet Georgia peaches (just like me!)

We ate in their cafe...yummy!

We took our dessert home and posed for a timed-pic. Aren't we cute?

Then, we went to some of our favorite places: Ikea and Target! We love to shop together at these two places. We finished the day with, of course, Mexican food. I am so glad Eliz shares my love for Mexican food. But, alas, no photo.

To see Eliz's post about our Atlanta Fun Day, click HERE.

I had an excellent time reconnecting with one of my bestest friends ever! She is so sweet to me. She even let me invade her space for three nights, cooked some delicious meals for me and even had a cute "welcome" basket ready for me with my favorite snacks and treats! Boy, do I love this girl! I just hope I'm half the friend to her that she is to me.

Love you, Eliz.

Technical Difficulties

2009-08-31T09:31:00.002-04:00

Sorry for being MIA. We are having technical difficulties. Well, basically, my internet in India was 1000 times better than my internet in South Georgia. But, that should be changing by the end of the week (Thank you, AT&T, for finally offering DSL in the boonies)! If I don't post before then, don't fret. I will be up and running as soon as possible.

Much love! Thanks for following!

Away for a while

2009-08-13T08:17:00.005-04:00

Hey, there, blogfriends. I am going to be blog-less for a little over a week. I have to head up to North GA for a job interview (pray!), then to see Eliz in Atlanta(yay!) and then to Virginia for a visit to "the farm" to debrief the last two years and see tons of friends. I'll be back live on the 23rd!

A Different Athens

2009-08-12T11:11:00.011-04:00

On my way home from South Asia, I stopped by Athens, Greece, to visit my dear friend Roslyn (also a former Journeyman) who is now married and living there. It was so fun to see my sweet friend there, meet her awesome new husband Amir, explore Athens and just enjoy a little bit of down time before the transition to Tha-Merica.

Ros and Amir

In Athens, I went at sunset to Mars Hill where the Apostle Paul preached to the Athenians. I saw it again in the daytime as well. From Mars Hill, you get a great view of the city.

Mars Hill from above

Me and Ros and the beautiful sunset behind us

I also went to Acropolis, went to the Acropolis Museum and saw many ruins including the Parthenon, the Propylaia, the Roman Gate, Olympia and the Hadrian Library.

The Parthenon

The Propylaia

Daytime view of the city

We went to see the tomb of the Marathon Soldier, who ran all the way from the last battle (the Battle of Marathon) between the Greeks and the Persians to announce that the Greeks had one (by betrayal, according to Amir—a Persian). The soldier died of exhaustion right after he delivered the news of victory. This tomb is guarded by soldiers dressed in traditional clothing all day, every day—much like the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier in Arlington National Cemetery.

The tomb is right in front of the Parliament building.

The soldiers that guard the tomb are really tall.

We also went to a beautiful park and saw lots of neat little animals and even spent at day at the Mediterranean Sea on the beach.

Roslyn cooked a delicious Iranian meal for the first time! Go Ros!

I had so much fun with Ros and her new family. Love you, girl!

A visit to my old "stompin ground"

2009-08-12T10:12:00.007-04:00

at La Parilla (Sam, Collin, Lee, Marie, Clay and Levi)

Athens. What a wonderful place.

For the four years I studied at The University of Georgia, I called Athens my home. I loved living there. Those years were truly awesome. I met my lifelong friends there, I got a degree, I began to grow in my relationship with the Lord, I went to some amazingly fun football games. I thrived.

So, when the opportunity to go back for a visit to help my little brother move into his new house arose, I took it! Though a lot of my closest friends have all moved on to different stages in their lives in different places, I was able to see a lot of the people that truly made my college experience great. Some friends were even conveniently back in town for different reasons.

The best college pastor every- Sky

Daira and little Alex

Mrs. Brannon

my twin, Dana ;-)

buddies at Barberitos! (my favorite in Athens)

Dana, Daira and Tyler

And Blake's room at his super-neat house didn't turn out too shabby either.

Ben and Blake

Stef

2009-08-11T10:52:00.005-04:00

This past weekend I helped Blake move to Athens and was able to reunite with many friends (more on that later). On the way to Athens, I stopped in Macon to see Stefanie, a dear college friend and fellow former Journeyman. We have been friends since our freshman year at Georgia, along with two other sweet gals--Heather and Lauren. I hope to reunite with them soon.

Stef was home for the week from New Orleans, where she attends seminary. We had not seen each other since July of 2008 in Thailand. She left South Asia later that year while I still had another year of my term left. It was so great to reunite with Stef and talk about "the big transition" from South Asia to America. She is such a great friend and always an encouragement to me. I love you, Stef!!!

Homecoming Parties

2009-08-11T08:58:00.000-04:00

Last Saturday night, I was welcomed home with a fun party at my neighbor's home. John and Wanda are excellent hosts! Many friends and family were able to come, and it was so good to be able to see everyone and visit again. Here are some photos from the night.

The hosts, John and Wanda, and the delicious cake

The Snyders

Sydney and me...do you think we are related?

Nanny and Pappy

Mama and baby Braxton

Grannie Ella, Papa Milton and Blake

Jamie Leah

The next day at my home church, I was welcomed back again with "Supper on the Grounds." I requested potluck Southern cuisine and homemade ice cream! It was delicious and wonderful to be back with my church family since my childhood. These people have loved me, prayed for me and supported me. I can't begin to thank them enough. Here are some pics!

Kimber, Jamie, Lindsey and Grace

Renee, Jewel, Gloria and Denise

Me and Bro. Walter (Forgive the dazed look. I think it was the jet lag!)

It was a fun-filled two days of reuniting with friends and family that I won't soon forget. It is such a blessing to come home and feel so welcomed and loved. Thank you, everyone! I love you!

Homecoming

2009-08-07T09:04:00.000-04:00

I am one blessed girl.

I am from a small town in South Georgia called Colquitt. Here, everybody does know everybody. So, it's nice to be back in a familiar place with familiar faces.

Apparently, they were preparing for my return as much as I was excited to be coming home!

This sign was in my yard.

These yellow ribbons were put up around town.

This was my daddy's office door.

I almost had a police escort back into town, but because my flight was so late (see previous post), that didn't happen.

It's good to be home.

After too many hours of traveling...

2009-08-06T08:47:00.004-04:00

I MADE IT HOME!

At 12:10 a.m. on Saturday, August 1, 2009, my feet hit that sweet Georgia soil. And, I was greeted by these beautiful people.

(our new president, included)

It was a crazy day of traveling. I left Athens, Greece, then flew to Frankfurt, Germany, where I had a 4-hour layover. I reached Atlanta around 4 p.m. on Friday, July 31st, in hopes to get through immigration/customs and get some Chick-fil-A in enough time to make my little puddle-jumper flight to Albany at 8 p.m. Well, Hartsfield-Jackson International Airport apparently can't handle a little bit of rain that well. So, I didn't leave Atlanta until about 11:45 p.m. I could have driven home, but they told me that it might be hard to get my luggage out to take it with me. So, I waited on my flight in an effort to stay with my four pieces of luggage.

When, I finally arrived in Albany, this reunion ensued.

And, I didn't get my luggage until Sunday.

What I'm Looking Forward To

2009-07-26T02:39:00.001-04:00

Now, on to another list...things I'm looking forward to. Of course, the top of the list is family and friends. But, here are some other things I can't wait for.

1. Driving. I have not driven a car since May 2008 when I went home for Blake's graduation. I think it's probably like riding a bike, if I can only remember to stay on the right side of the road and to not follow too closely!

2. Drinking water from the faucet! Yeah...I haven't done that in a while. It's going to be strange to just stick a glass under the faucet and then drink the water.

3. Wearing skirts and dresses. Oh! And high heels!

4. QUIET! No horns unless absolutely necessary, no loud vehicles, no screeching brakes, no construction noise (well, we are doing some repairs to our house in Colquitt), no random vendors yelling out the things they are selling as they walk down your street at 6:45 a.m., no pooja bells...

5. Stars. I live in a city of 8-9 million. Definitely cannot see the stars here.

6. Eating fruits and vegetables without having to wash them in potassium permanganate (aka poison).

7. One-stop shopping. Can I really go to one store and get everything I need in one stop? I can't remember. Target and Wal-mart, are you merely figments of my imagination?

8. People providing a service (like installing internet or making an order for, say, tailored clothes ready) when they say they are going to.

9. Chick-fil-A, Taco Bell, Mexican restaurants, Mama and Grannie's cooking, Daddy's grilled chicken, etc.

10. The holidays. "I'll be home for Christmas..."

11. Cold-ish weather. Fall and winter, I've missed you. I can't wait to wear a jacket and scarf and boots!

12. Feet that are almost always clean (and smooth).

13. My wonderful bed...no more dorm-sized, stiff mattress for me.

14. Lots and lots of grass!

15. Carpet.

16. Cashiers that are willing to make change even if you give them a bigger bill. That's one thing about business here that I still don't understand. You are hard-pressed to find a business or cashier that will give you change willingly. They always ask you for change...meaning they want the correct change from you because either they don't have change (why? aren't they running a business?) or they don't want to have to count it out.

17. Power that doesn't go out unless a thunderstorm, tornado or hurricane knocks it out.

18. Wide open spaces...South Georgia farmland, fields, pastures. Again, city of 8-9 million here. Also, personal space will be nice.

19. "Keeping the queue," or rather, no one breaking in front of you because it's just how things are done.

20. No staring. I won't be the only fair-skinned, blue-eyed blonde in the market anymore and won't get stared out. Wait...I might actually miss being the center of attention. ;-)

What I'm Going to Miss

2009-07-26T02:02:00.010-04:00

I leave this place on tonight. I cannot believe it, but I am looking forward to what is to come. I am sad to leave but so happy to go home and reunite with my family and friends there. I thought I would compile a little list of things that I going to miss (besides, obviously, my friends and co-workers). So, here goes.

1. Auto Rickshaws. I love them. At first, they are a little scary, but then after a while you get used to it. It eventually becomes a soothing ride. I do my best thinking in autos. Man, I will miss that "fresh" air blowing through my hair!

2. Cheap, fresh, delicious produce that is delivered to your doorstep. We have great vegetables and fruit that will make you want to slap the person who ever invented canned vegetables and fruit. I will never be able to eat canned pineapple without regret. And...all this great produce can be delivered to you by your friendly neighborhood vegetable wallah.

3. Someone who comes to my door in the morning, takes my un-ironed laundry then returns it before lunch...all for less than $1.

4. Our security guards. Now, don't get me wrong. We don't think they could ever chase down and subdue a perpetrator, but they are just about the friendliest and kindest people you'll ever meet. The first time I cried about leaving this country was when I realized I would never see my favorite security guard again.

5. Speaking another language and making someone's day when you do. Everyday is an adventure when you are trying to communicate in a tongue that is not your "mother tongue." it sure is fun (and funny when you make mistakes) and so wonderful when a person you meet proudly thanks you for learning to speak their language.

6. The clothes! My style and eye for fashion has certainly changed. I love how bright and colorful everything is. I am going to think clothes in America are so "blah" when they are one color and without pattern.

7. The food and eating with my hands. Cheese paper dosa, fresh lime soda, dal, bende kaiyi palya, garlic nan...yummy. And, anyway, who needs utensils?

8. Chai breaks. Anytime, anywhere, with anybody...chai is a symbol of hospitality and kindness. No matter the time, the place or the people- there is always time for some tasty chai. Also, the city stops at 4 p.m. for chai.

9. The way people are willing to drop everything they had to do that day to help you with something whether it be shopping for a new sari, paying your electric bill or giving you a ride to somewhere on the other side of the city.

10. The custom of taking your stinkin' nasty shoes off at the door. Why don't we do this? It makes your house stay cleaner longer.

11. Customer service. Although, it's not always that efficient or helpful sometimes, the concept of customer service is very important in this culture. You can walk into a simple clothing store and there will be more than enough salespeople to help you find exactly what you are looking for in the right color and size. I think I'll go into a normal clothing chain in America and wonder "Where are all the salespeople? And why can't I get anyone to help me out?"

12. Milk in little bags. No need for huge plastic jugs, milk in little bags is the way to go. I wonder how it will feel to take a whole gallon jug out of the fridge in the morning. Heavy.

13. My gym. I love my gym here. It is fully equipped with everything you need for cardio and strength training, and you even have a personal trainer, dietician and physical therapist I will never be able to afford that in America.

14. Care packages. I mean, who's gonna send me Mac 'n Cheese, salsa seasoning packets, M & M's and the like when I live in America?

15. Doing absolutely nothing when it rains and not feeling bad about it. When it rains in America, life has to carry on as usual. When it rains here, well, life cannot carry on as usual.

16. Two words: Mango. Season.

17. Our neighborhood. Oh, Malleshwaram. You have everything I need within walking distance and some really cool people to boot.

18. The wild donkeys that roam our neighborhood. Every other area of town has, understandably, cows roaming the streets. But, not ours. We have wild donkeys. That charge at us sometimes. I won't miss that, but I will miss how fun it is to count the new donkeys every now and then. They multiply rapidly.

19. South Asian hospitality. People here are very hospitable, always inviting you in to their homes even if they just met you. You will always be greeted with a glass of water, then chai and biscuits and, if you stay long enough, a delicious home-cooked meal.

20. The shopping. Most everything worth buying is beautifully hand-crafted and cheap. I love our local handicraft shops and markets, and I will miss visiting them and my favorite shopkeepers. They always make my day when I go shopping with "The best price for you, Madame. This shop is yours because you are a regular customer."

(P.S. I wanted to add pictures that went along with each point on the list, but the internet is not cooperating. Sorry!)

Last Visa Run to Thailand

2009-07-06T21:15:00.000-04:00

Every six months, we have to leave our country for a visa run. Basically, we just need to leave the country for a few days. Then we can come back. Annually, my company uses this opportunity as a time for meetings, fellowship and corporate worship. For this, we go to Chiang Mai, Thailand. This was my last out of three trips to Thailand. Can I just say that I love Thailand? It's a good break from life in South Asia and has a lot of American amenities. Starbucks. Enough said. Here are some fun pictures from the trip.

Reba rented a scooter and did a great job driving around town.

Our "little bro" Zach was recognized at Senior Night.

The sponsoring fellowship brought chocolate fountains!

The typical mode of transportation is a songtaw- a pick-up truck with a covering over the bed.

Karaoke night is always fun!

My roommate for the trip- sweet Georgia girl Kimberly

Thailand, I'll miss visiting you every six months!

Playing Catch-up- Last visit to some dear friends

2009-07-05T08:16:00.006-04:00

Just before we left for Thailand we took our last trip to a neighboring city where we have done most of our trainings. We spent the night with Arezoo for the last time and were surprised (and happy) to see that her mother, Mirnaz, was there, too! The next morning we went to church with our friends to see some of the girls that participated in our training. This was the last time we got to see these beautiful friends of ours. It was hard to say "see you later," but we were so glad to get to spend time with them again before we leave.

The power was out so we had dinner by candlelight.

We love her.

movie night and silly faces

"Two pretty ladies, walking down the street." (They used to always say this as we left. They said if for our last time leaving, too.)

Friends

With Sunitha, our translator and dear friend

Such bittersweet good-byes.

Playing Catch-up- Teaching the neighbors how to make salsa

2009-07-05T07:52:00.009-04:00

A couple of weeks ago our neighbor needed to learn how to make something completely from scratch and without any kind of electricity for a school project. She asked us to help her because she didn't want to do anything traditional. She wanted to try something new that the judges of the contest may have never had before. So...we decided to teach her how to make my "famous" salsa (people around here sure like it and always ask me to make it for get-togethers). I have been able to perfect the recipe since coming here because I am always craving it. Here are some pictures from the night we taught our neighbor.

Chopping tomatoes...little brother was a great help!

Posin'

Writing down the recipe and chowing down

Brittany's "Famous" Fresh Salsa
(super simple and super tasty)

1 kg of tomatoes (about 2.2 lbs.)- peeled, seeded and diced
(my trick to peeling is to stick the tomatoes in boiling water for a few seconds and the peel comes right off)

1 medium size onion, diced

4 cloves of garlic, minced

1 small green chili, diced into tiny pieces
(probably half of a small jalopeno, if you're in America)

the juice of one lime
(or lemon if you're in South Asia)

2 handfuls of cilantro, stems removed and chopped roughly

salt, pepper and cumin to taste
(if I have it available, I will replace the spices with a McCormick Salsa Seasoning packet)

THAT'S IT!

South Asian Sam's Club

2009-06-17T22:43:00.005-04:00

Last week our neighbor took us to the South Asian version of Sam's Club. First, however, to understand our "shock & awe factor" to this place, I'll have to tell you how we normally have to shop for everyday household items and groceries.

In our neighborhood, there are four fairly decent grocery stores that also have household goods like cleaning supplies, a few kitchen wares, etc. Picture something like an American convenient store but add fruits and vegetables and stuff like rice, flour, sugar. In the next neighborhood over, there is one import store where we can sometimes find imported items like tortilla chips, canned soups, good-ish cheeses and cooking spray.

On a normal shopping day, we might have to go to all of these stores to find what is on our list and then also make a stop at the outdoor fruits and veggies market (which I heart) to get everything we need. It can be an all day affair. You see, it takes a lot more time to get simple things done here.

Well, you can imagine our "shock & awe" when we walked into THE METRO.

What? You can find all your items (South Asian-made and a few imports) in one place?!? You can go there and get out of there and be done in less than an hour?!? You're kidding, right?

You can even buy "America's Favorite Mattress." We're American, and we approve.

And, you definitely get the freshest fish, eggs and cuts of meat...especially mutton (sorry graphic picture!).

Total craziness! I think this might have helped for when it comes time to transition back into life in America...our supermarket shopping world.

Silk & Pretty Dresses

2009-06-16T11:19:00.005-04:00

I think I told you during "A Day in My Life" that silk and tailoring clothes are common industries here. I also mentioned my plan to have some beautiful dresses and clothes made for me before coming home. So, now I am in the process of trying to buy the fabric and pick out designs from some of my favorite clothes shops. So far, I know that I am going to have 3 or 4 dresses made, some linen pants and a few pencil skirts. It is fun!

Here are some of the fabrics I have bought so far and a few pictures of dress ideas:

raw silk, silk cotton blends, silk chiffon and linen

One of my roommates also gave me a great idea. I have a beautiful green and red (very Christmas-y) sari that I have worn here for weddings and other special occasions. See.

I took it to the tailor last week to have it made into something like this (JCrew) dress but with wide straps added. It's going to be gorgeous!

I can't wait to see how everything turns out!

Interesting Study...

2009-06-12T22:58:00.003-04:00

Some friends posted this study on their blog, and I thought I would post it as well. The study suggests that people who travel or live abroad become more creative in critical thinking and problem solving. I think, after living cross-culturally for nearly two years, that this is true. I've noticed in myself not only increased creativity when it comes to getting problems solved and everyday sort of thing done but also increased creativity in general.

Daily, I am trying to come up with new ways to get things done whether it's how to get to a place that is quite far without a car or how to cook my favorite dish from home without all the conveniences of living in America. I am really good at getting the price I want for something by striking some pretty creative deals with vendors, if I do say so myself.

Another aspect of this is my desire to be more crafty since moving here. The colors and beautiful fabrics and designs here have gotten me wanting to be able to make cool stuff I see on my own. I've learned to sew since moving, have started painting on canvas a little more and enjoy making gifts from friends instead of buying them. All in all, I feel like a more creative person.

Click here for the post on Freakonomics. Check it out. Make sure to click on the article within the post.

Vacation- Round 3 (World Wonder)

2009-06-11T01:13:00.004-04:00

Sunday, we took the train to Cairo. I had been there for only a few hours when I flew in, and so it was nice to be able to explore the city a little more, go to an unbelievable mall, eat at On the Border, visit new friends and, of course, see the Pyramids and the Sphinx (which, by the way, is so much smaller than you think in real life). I rode a camel for the first time and bought some great gifts for friends and family (and myself).

One of the 9 pyramids and the Sphinx (told you it was kinda little)

This is my camel. I shall call him "Nappy," and he shall be mine.

me and Sarah

Camels are grouchy.

fun shot

Now, I've seen two world wonders: the pyramids and the Taj Mahal.

I had such a great time with my sweet friend. It was an easy, laid back vacation for the both of us. It's good when you get to vacation with someone else who lives cross-culturally because the "go" and "do" and "see" just doesn't have to happen unless it happens. It was a good break from my crazy, chaotic South Asian life, and I enjoyed spending time with my friend from the farm.

I love you, Sarah!

Vacation- Round 2

2009-06-10T21:43:00.006-04:00

After our 5 days on the Sinai Peninsula, we headed back to Alexandria...on the Mediterranean! It is a beautiful city, and my friend's apartment is just a stone's throw from the sea. There, I was able to see a couple that was at training with me and their new little girl, do a little shopping and eat at Chili's! I think you know that it's probably one of my favorite restaurants (besides, Barberitos and La Parilla, Athenians!). I also got my hair cut while there. It's a lot like it was before but just a better cut. It's cute!

the Sea

me and the Sea

fishing boats

Chili's!

beautiful Sarah in her kurta and bangles I brought her

Vacation So Far...

2009-06-06T04:02:00.006-04:00

The first 5 days of my trip I spent by the pool and on the beach in Sharm el Sheikh, a little Red Sea town on the Sinai Peninsula. We got really good tans, drank Starbucks, bought some beautiful jewelry, snorkeled in the Red Sea and relaxed to the max. It was great. Here are a few pictures:

On the plane to the resort with sweet Sarah +

Glorious Starbucks +

the pool and pedicured toes +

the Red Sea +

snorkeling =

TOO MUCH FUN!

Now, I am in Alexandria to do a little hanging out and eating at Chili's...yes, Chili's! Then, off to Cairo and to the pyramids Monday. More to come later. I promise (might be after I get home). Love y'all!

Out.

2009-05-30T21:01:00.000-04:00

with this girl:

Sorry that I have been a slacker of a blogger this last week. Please forgive me. It's been a crazy busy week. And, now...I am going to Egypt for vacation! I'll try to post during the trip, but don't expect it. However, you can be sure that I'll be posting tons of photos and anecdotes from what is sure to be a most excellent vacation with a great friend!

Kris Allen!

2009-05-22T13:07:00.004-04:00

So, I finally got to watch the American Idol finale, and I am so excited that Kris Allen won. I am completely ecstatic that a follower of Jesus is the American "Idol." It is amazing to me how our God can use a humble man with God-given talent to potentially reach the nation for Himself. Here's a clip of Kris leading worship in his Arkansas church.

Congrats, Kris. May He receive the glory!

The Random Post of...Randomness

2009-05-17T00:43:00.001-04:00

No coherent thoughts for a post today. So, here's just a bunch of randomness going on in my mind.

1. I am going to visit a friend in Egypt in two weeks. I am stoked! I've always wanted to see the pyramids, the Nile, etc. I can't believe I actually have the opportunity to go. Lots to do before then, however...especially shopping for goodies for my friend!

2. Why is that when it's time for me to leave this country, we get a Chili's (perhaps my favorite restaurant) in my city? So not fair!

3. I miss the stars. Can't see 'em here, but in South Georgia...man, they are amazing.

4. I almost think I could live without central heating and cooling. I have for two years now. But, the weather is pretty mild here. The fan and open windows do just fine.

5. I have been avoiding Facebook, Twitter (except for the occasional update) and TV blogs/Web sites like the plague because I haven't watched the Grey's finale yet. I hear it was an intense one. It's on my agenda for the day.

6. Have I mentioned that I. Love. Coffee? Cannot live without it.

Have a great Sunday!

Voices for Peace

2009-05-15T01:49:00.008-04:00

In this country, there is such an opportunity to meet and be friends with people from many backgrounds, nationalities and cultures. I have had the pleasure of meeting and becoming friends with several Iranians. Please watch this video and consider it.

(I couldn't figure out how to make it small enough to fit the post. Sorry.)

Addendum- One Lorry is being there only.

2009-05-13T21:35:00.004-04:00

Since posting about the widespread use of the English language in this country (and how funny it can be), I've been able to think of two more examples for you with the help of some friends.

6. Pronunciation of the letter w in the place of the letter v
For example, village is Willage. Heaven is heaWen. Victory is Wictory. Invited is inWited. Etc. The first time I realized they did this was in national fellowship. The leader was teaching and talking about "heaWen." First, you've got to understand that it takes about a month to fully understand the way English is spoken here. It's different, there's an accent, etc. It's just a little difficult.

At this point, we had only been here about a month. The leader was going on an on about "heaWen." See, I knew he was talking spiritual, but all I could hear was "heroine." I knew this wasn't right, but when it finally clicked that he was saying "heaven," I laughed out loud. Another example, someone thought a leader at a fellowship was talking about "witchery" when really he was talking about "victory."

7. "You do this one thing."
This is a common phrase when people are suggesting you do something, whether it concerns your health, how to cook a specific dish, directions to a place, where to find a specific item in town, etc. "You do this one thing. You take the tablet, go back to sleep, then eat. " "You do this one thing. First, make the bread. Then the dal." "You do this one thing. Go to the petrol bunk (gas station), turn right. It will be on the left side."

Love it.

Happy Mother's Day!

2009-05-10T01:14:00.006-04:00

Today is the day we honor our mothers. And, oh how I love mine! My mama is my best friend, and I can't wait until I get to see her face again and do all the stuff we love to do together. Only 81 days!

I love you, Mama! Happy Mother's Day!

In an auto when she came to visit in November

I was a brunette.

Best Friends!

Grannie & Mema, Happy Mother's Day! You are the best grandmothers a girl could ask for. I love you so much.

Mema

Three Generations: Grannie, me, Mama (my graduation from UGA)

Grannie

I hope you all have a great day loving on and honoring your mothers.

One lorry is being there only.

2009-05-08T22:42:00.005-04:00

The use of English is widespread here. Most people know at least a little bit. The higher class you are and the more education you have, the more English you know. The English spoken here is a mixture of British English (thanks to British colonization) and American slang (thanks to Hollywood movies).

However, mistakes are common and quite funny. Here are just a few examples.

1. Sentence structure:
National languages have a completely different sentence structure than we do in English. Instead of subject-verb-object, their languages often do subject-object-verb or object-subject-verb. This makes for some funny-sounding sentences when they speak English in their mother tongue sentence structure. For example, instead of "I am going home," "Home I am going" is commonly said. Instead of "There is the car," "The car is there."

2. The over-use of the word only
Why? I do not know. But, the use of the word only is very common. For everything. "You are going to be home only?" When calling someone and you ask for a specific person, she will probably say, "It is I only." Where are you? "I am here only." How much will you pay (in an auto rickshaw)? "Meter only." "You come on Saturday only." "The lorry is there only." Where do you live? "Here only." The word is very versatile.

3. British words for common objects
Lorry = truck. Lift = elevator. Flat = apartment. Flyover = bridge/overpass. Etc.

4. Misplaced use of articles a, an, the or the use of one instead of an article
In all the national languages, there is no such thing as an article. Therefore, to try and sound correct, many nationals throw the articles into their sentences in random places or when they are not needed. I am often "The Brittany." "I am having the fever." Another mistake with articles is using the word one when an article would suffice. "One auto is there." "One good film is playing in the cinema."

5. Switching continuous and present tenses
I don't know why, but the use of continuous tense instead of simple present is commonly used. Instead of "I have a new car," you will hear "I am having a new car." "I am living here only." "One boy is being in the street only." Sometimes, instead of using continuous tense, they will use simple present incorrectly. What are you doing? "I make food only." "I go there only."

These are just a few of the common funnies and mistakes, and there are many more that I cant't think of right now. But, when I get home, and I start speaking English in this way, DON'T MAKE FUN! I can't help the doing it that way only.

100th Post! (and a Thank You)

2009-05-01T02:54:00.001-04:00

I didn't realize that the conclusion of "A Day in My Life" would be right at the 100th post mark. Man, it feels good. I have been blogging for almost two years now, sometimes being diligent to do it and sometimes not. But, this milestone is exciting and only prompts me to blog my little heart out even more.

I don't know where the direction of the blog will go quite yet, but I do know I only have three more months in South Asia. (Lord, please give me a job.) But, stay tuned. Over the next several months, I will be directing it that way. Whatever that way is.

Thank you for following along with "A Day in My Life." I wouldn't have been motivated to do if I hadn't been able to see your interest through comments and frequent visits. I hope this past month gave you a little insight to life on the other side of the pond and has expanded your "worldview" a little bit. I hope it also helps you know how to pray for the people and us better.

Thanks for all the support.

30. Doctor! Doctor!

2009-04-30T00:54:00.004-04:00

Today I went to the hospital, to the orthopedic surgeon to be exact. I had been having some trouble with knee pain and wanted to get it checked out, considering all the surgeries I had when I was younger. It has been limiting my ability to do a lot of walking and to exercise (which really bugs me), and I was starting to feel a lot older than I am. I went to the best hospital in town, the more modern one where the nurses wear scrubs instead of white saris.

First, the hospital itself is an interesting place. Most foreigners in the area go there for their medical needs because it is more Western than any other hospital in town. While sitting in the waiting room, I have met Africans, Afghanis, other Americans, Brits, Dutch, French and nationals. It's quite a unique experience.

Second, the efficiency is unbelievable (for this country). I called Wednesday after the pain was bugging me a lot and got an appointment for the next day. I showed up, checked in at the main counter and went directly to the nurses station outside of the doctor's office. He and his assistant saw me within 10 minutes and ordered X-rays, and within 15 minutes I was in the X-ray room. Everyone is very helpful and friendly. The X-Ray guy, however, didn't say anything except to ask me if I am married (common question...trying to woo themselves an American sugar mama).

Ten minutes later, I am back in my doctors office looking at the computer screen with my digital X-rays on it! Amazing. Basically, I have little to no cartilage in my right knee, and he's concerned about my bone density. He tells me he's going to order me a knee brace, some calcium supplements and put me on a physiotherapy (physical therapy) regime. I'll have to go to physio three days next week to learn mobilization exercises. So, he sent me straight up to physio where they immediately made an appointment for me.

I then head to the in-house pharmacy where I'm able to pick up my meds and the knee brace and square up my bill. The total for consultation, X-rays, meds, knee brace and three physiotherapy sessions comes to less than $70...without insurance claims (which I don't have any right to do here). Unbelievable. I was out of there in an hour and 10 minutes. I'm not kidding.

Have you ever considered medical tourism? ;-)

29. Crazy, Funny Signs

2009-04-29T02:50:00.004-04:00

There are some great signs around here. Here are just a few around town.

Lift is strictly for human movement and not for luggage.

You only have one head. Protect it.

Save the zebra's (why is there an apostrophe?...zebras=crosswalks) and the people on them.

Please do not wash your hands.

Spitting around White House complex is strictly prohibited.

Do nut pluck flowers.

Do not pass urine here.

28. Auto!

2009-04-28T09:29:00.004-04:00

Our typical mode of transportation is the auto rickshaw. So I thought you might enjoy a little video and join us on a ride to Hindi class. This is actually a mild ride, but you can see us dodging other autos, cars and pedestrians, among other things. All for less than a dollar!

27. The Postal System

2009-04-27T01:28:00.003-04:00

Today a got a package from Eliz! Yay! It took six weeks...the longest a package has ever taken to get here. The kinda sad thing about the amount of time it took this package to get here is that it had a ton of great Easter stuff. But, it also had other fun stuff like playdough (!), blonde bobby pins and candy.

Easter basket grass!

It matches!

Gummies! Yum.

The postal system is a bit inefficient, yet suprisingly efficient for the third world. Usually it takes a regular flat rate box 3-4 weeks to get here from the U.S. The slow part is not getting over the ocean. It can take as little as 5 days to cross the Atlantic. But, it gets stuck when it gets in country. Customs may cause some of the problems, but mostly it's just that things get done a lot slower here.

When sending a letter from here to home, the stamp costs about 25 rupees ($.50). Boxes are a bit more and can take up to a month and a half, depending on which method you choose to use. Your options include Speedpost (air), half ship/half air or completely by ship. I have sent a few things in country, including a big padded envelope full of goodies for a friend. It cost 51 rupees ($1) and only 6 days. Pretty good. When you send a package domestically or internationally you have to sew cloth around the box. Like this.

Pretty neat, huh?

Oh, and thanks Eliz! I love you!

26. Random Roadside Goods & Services

2009-04-26T03:24:00.003-04:00

One convenience to living here is the ease in which you can obtain random everyday goods and services...on the side of the road. These pictures are just a few examples of what you can find. From autos while sitting at a traffic signal, you can purchase newspapers, magazines, toy cars, stars that glow in the dark for your ceiling, Q-tips, flashlights, random toys and more.

If you are driving a long on your motorbike and realize you're not wearing a helmet, you're bound to find a helmet stand somewhere along the way. You can buy carpets, gas cylinders for your stoves, jackets, fruits &and vegetables, potted plants, pirated DVDs, sugar cane juice, coconut water, nightgowns, fresh lime soda, shoes, the idol (god) of your choice, etc. Just to name a few.

Some of the services offered roadside include shoe repair and polishing, bicycle repair, hair cuts and shaves, toilets (well, sort of), freshly made fast food and snacks, drive-by temple worship and more.

It's so fantastic!

25. Sweet Tea

2009-04-25T10:47:00.003-04:00

Today as Kimberly and I were out and about, we got a little thirsty. We happened upon the "Georgia Gold" stand and found that their specialty is "Georgia sweet tea." Admittedly, it wasn't half as good as my Grannie Ella's sweet tea and was a little too lemon-y, but it was still good. But, how cool is that? Sweet tea in South Asia...a first for me!

24. Georgia Girls

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the best in the world

My friend Kimberly from college lives in another city in my country and came this weekend for a visit. The weekend will be full of fun...shopping, the movies, maybe a pedicure and some good food. In fact, tonight we went to Hard Rock (a treat for me, too) with my friends. It was so good. I am excited she's here and am thankful for the fun and fellowship we'll share this weekend.

23. Precious New Baby

2009-04-23T05:45:00.000-04:00

Last week, I wrote about visiting Rahab's Rope and spending time with the women there. Well, the very next day, one of the ladies that lives there gave birth to this precious little boy! We got to meet him today.

Here's Mackey, the full-time volunteer at the center, putting some new clothes on little John (stong, Biblical name).

And of course, I couldn't resist.

22. House Fellowship

2009-04-22T12:28:00.002-04:00

I couldn't post about my life without including a post about my house fellowship. We meet every Wednesday night, a body of believers that are both national and international. They are such a blessing to me!

We study the Word, sing, pray, share meals, etc. together. The group is made up of people from all over and who have lived all over. Our backgrounds, culture and nationalities are different, yet we are all one in Him.

The keep me going. They encourage me, pray for me, exhort me, challenge me and look after me. They have definitely helped make these two years a time of spiritual growth and nourishment. Praise Him for the body scattered throughout the world!

21. Scrumptious Fruits

2009-04-21T13:59:00.002-04:00

It's MANGO SEASON!

Let me just tell you. Fruits (& pretty much all produce) here are so good! It's so fresh because most of it doesn't come from very far away. I discovered that I really like mangos since moving here, but I think it may be because the mangos here are out of this world! They are perfectly sweet, and there are so many different varieties to choose from. And cheap! In the States, I remember them being relatively expensive because they are imported. They weren't all that wonderful either. I'll miss them.

Other fruits that have become favorites are pomegranates (the seeds are so tender and juicy that you can just pop them in your mouth like candy) and the itty bitty bananas they have here. There are regular old bananas like in America, but there is also a variety that is about 4" long and super sweet. The consistency is a little different, not as "grainy" and with a smoother texture.

The best thing is the availability of all the produce. Just like in this picture, there are these little stands dotted along every roadside all throughout the city and even in more rural areas. On a road trip? Pull over on the roadside for a healthy snack. Sugar low during shopping in the heat? There's bound to be a fruit stand with some itty bitty bananas (tip: don't eat the fruit that doesn't have a thick peel right off the street...not a good idea). So convenient!

20. Staycation

2009-04-20T21:57:00.003-04:00

Well, no pictures today. Sorry. But, man, it was a glorious day! Today was the first day in weeks that I had really nothing on the agenda, no plans with friends, no meetings, etc. It was great. I decided to use the day as a little "Staycation," since I don't have time right now to go on vacation.

I didn't sleep too late but had a little extra time. I drank two magnificent cups of coffee, ate a nice breakfast and spent extra time in the Word. I still exercised on Staycation, but that didn't bother me. Then, I stayed in slouchy clothes all day, reading the last Twilight book (Yeah. Addicted.) and watching movies. I also got a little craft time in, which I had been missing for a while.

The day kind of reminded me of those most excellent days on Christmas break from school (excpet that it was blazin' hot) when you stayed in your pj's all day just because you could. It felt nice to have a day that was completely free to rest and be lazy.

Don't worry. I'll be right back at it tomorrow with more pictures and daily life fun!

19. Cooking from Scratch

2009-04-19T00:43:00.007-04:00

This was our delicious breakfast this Sunday morning. This was after we were stuffed. Please disregard the "I am Canadian" mug. I am not Canadian.

Since moving to South Asia, cooking from scratch is a skill that we've been able to work on. Ready-made or pre-made/semi-made stuff is just not that available. This morning we had pancakes, scrambled eggs and bacon. Now the bacon is a story in and of itself. It came in a care package from America. It's that ready to serve stuff. You can't get bacon here. And it is a treat for special occasions only.

But, the syrup! Made from scratch. Yes, I know how to make syrup from scratch. It is so good. You'll notice that there is a syrup bottle in the background. We bought that before we learned how to make our own syrup. If I had a mixer or food processor, I would have made the peanut butter as well. But, we give in and buy the expensive imported stuff because we don't have the appliances needed to make our own peanut butter.

I love cooking from scratch. I feel so accomplished. My Grannie Ella would be proud. I can make tortillas, cakes, pie crusts, my own ground sausage (yep!), yogurt, sour cream, etc. Any beans that we eat are dry beans that we soak and then cook in the pressure cooker (oh, how I love the pressure cooker). I know how to make any baking recipe vegetarian (without eggs). I can bake bread. I make my own biscuits. I haven't made jam yet (still working on the supply of Mayhaw jelly my mama brought over). I have mastered my salsa recipe since coming here, and I know how to jar it to make it last for months. I plan on learning to make my own cheese.

I am going to make a good wife. ;-)

18. NP stands for...

2009-04-18T11:29:00.003-04:00

NOISE POLLUTION!

Probably not what "NP" on the truck stands for, but, hey, good enough. Quiet moments...they are so hard to come by here. If the back of the "lorry" is any indicator, it is just fine to "please sound horn please (please!!)" at all hours of the day and night. I'm not kidding.

One thing is for sure. It is very noisy here. Ask my mama. She can hear it...on Skype. Random music blaring from the temple down the street, the call to prayer from the nearby mosques, car/auto/lorry/bus/two-wheeler horns (and brakes...screech!), public announcements on loudspeakers, etc. It is chaotic and noisy!

My building is on a main road, and my apartment is at the front of the building. Near a bus stand. Enough. said. All day every day the sounds of traffic permeate our little humble abode. There really is not a moment of quiet. On top of that, the construction is (you guessed it!) still underway on the flat next to us. It's only quiet from about 2-5 a.m. Seriously.

If I had a recorder, I would let you hear it. But, alas, I do not.

17. Hope

2009-04-17T08:50:00.007-04:00

Weekly, we have the pleasure of helping at a center that works to rehabilitate women who have been involved in commercial sex work (prostitution). The center is called Rahab's Rope, and it is a haven for women trying to make a new life for themselves and leave behind the trade.

Most often than not, the women became commercial sex workers (CSWs) because they were forced to or sold by someone close to them, perhaps a father or husband, or because life circumstances led them to do this as a way to provide for themselves and their families. All of their stories are heart-breaking.

Rahab's strives to rehabilitate the women physically, emotionally and spiritually. Up to 30 women are given a home in the center along with any young children they may have. They are given the opportunity to learn English, basic math and other skills like sewing and jewelry-making so that they can leave the life of prostitution and find other work. They are also assisted with medical care (many may have HIV/AIDS) and childcare as well as financial help to attend nursing school, beauty school or basic college classes.

When we go to the center we are able to help with the English and math classes as well as teach stories from God's Word. Many of the women are choosing to follow Him and are being discipled at the center. Recently, we began to start thinking of other ways that we could help, and we decided that some sort of arts and crafts project would be fun. It would give the women something creative to do and bring beauty into their lives. We decided that each woman should make a scrapbook about their lives.

Since Reba's mom came last week, we had her bring out disposable cameras and scrapbooking supplies, donated by friends and family. We bought the women small scrapbooks. Today we went to have a "lesson" in scrapbooking. Our friend Camille, an excellent photographer, came and taught the ladies basic photography skills and presented them with their disposable cameras.

We then showed them some examples of scrapbook pages. We put all the papers and stickers and scissors out in the middle of the circle and let them go at it! It was cute because, at first, they really weren't sure about what to do or confident to do it. But, once they got going, they really got going. They were able to create some beautiful pages. They will keep their cameras for a few weeks and then bring them back for us to develop. Later, they will put the pictures into their scrapbooks.

We hope this scrapbook will help them be able to creatively express themselves and give them something to represent the new life they are trying to lead. Please lift up these women and their children as they are continually trying to escape the slavery of commerical sex work. Please also plead on behalf of their salvation.

me and some of the cutest kids ever

16. This is...

2009-04-16T12:25:00.003-04:00

American Idol!

Every week we get a little slice of American pop culture when AI airs here on Thursday nights (two days late for us...so you, Facebookers, don't ruin it for us). It has kinda become roommate tradition for us since our neighbors let us borrow a television until we leave.

I know it seems silly, but it's a highlight of the week that we look forward to and often talk about. I think it helps us feel a little connected and like we are "in the American loop" to be able to talk about and discuss something that is popular at home. Most other shows that air here are re-runs from previous seasons. So, it's nice to be "current." We also enjoy making fun of Paula because, really, when does she ever make sense?

I couldn't post about my daily life here without mentioning our little guilty pleasure.

15. Day O' Shopping

2009-04-15T12:08:00.003-04:00

Today we had a full day of shopping! We started early and went down to the famous commercial area of our city. I took a few pictures to show you what a little shopping looks like here.

This picture is a street view of one of the busiest shopping areas in our city. But, this was very early (10:30 a.m.) and not a lot of shops were open nor people out and about.

This is the "Dupatta Center." We stopped here to find a few scarves and shawls. Look at the selection!

Bangle shops are so fun! There is such a selection, and you can get the guys that work there to match your bangles combination to the shirt or suit you just bought!

Finally, this picture shows you how skillfully people run businesses from their bicycles. This guy sells coconut water to hot and thirsty shoppers. Apparently, it's "good for digestion" and "for when you are overheating." But, then again, most things are, according to nationals. I, personally, think it's disgusting!

FYI: The coconut water guy is just one example of a traveling/roadside businessman. I'll post one day about the many things you can buy on the side of the road. It will amaze you.

14. Precept study

2009-04-14T04:25:00.003-04:00

Have you ever done a Kay Arthur Precept upon Precept Bible study? Last year I did my first one with some of the ladies in my city. Precepts offers inductive Bible studies that focus on observing, interpreting and applying God's Word in our daily lives. Last year we did the "A Divided Heart...A Divided Nation" study in the Kings and Prophets series about Kings David, Solomon, Rehoboam, Jeroboam and Abijam. Today we started our second study together: "God Searches for a Heart Fully His" which continues from the first study.

I really like Precepts because the daily lessons get you studying the Word thoroughly, providing back-up Scriptures, other references and historical information and asks questions that help you apply what you read from God's Word to your daily life. It's really neat to take the Old Testament and seek out personal application from it this way. The studies also teach you effective ways to study your Bible. I really encourage everyone to try a Precept study at some point. For more information, go to the Precept Ministries International Web site. Click HERE.

13. The tailor's shop

2009-04-13T09:44:00.004-04:00

One thing I love about living here is the clothing! Saris for fancy occasions (everyday wear for nationals), salwar kameez suits for days when I want to make sure I am traditionally and culturally appropriate and then kurtis with jeans/pants for casual days.

Every piece of clothing here is so colorful, and you can have everything made to fit you (hey, I love this...it's not easy to find clothes that fit this 4'8" frame). These are some pics I took today when we visited one of our favorite tailor's shop. He has made me salwar suits, hemmed my jeans, put darts in tops and made kurtis for me. The tailor is excellent at what he does and can make just about anything you want if you show him a picture.

The process of picking out your clothes is quite fun but can be a little overwhelming. When you enter the shop, you tell the store worker what you are looking for...a ready-made salwar kameez suit, salwar kameez material or material to have a kurti made. He then directs you to that area of the shop. It often looks like this:

Then, you start trying to find the perfect material for you! This is hard because, as you can see, there is a lot to choose from. To help, you can tell him what material you want: cotton, synthetic, soft cotton, a blend, etc. Then you can begin to weed out by color, telling him you don't want orange or that you are looking for something that is pink, for example.

He then begins to show you material you like or that he thinks you will like. If you are buying a salwar suit, you need to make sure that you like all three pieces of material and that those three pieces match. The material for the pant (salwars) and the scarf (dupatta) should be about the same and the top (kameez) should compliment and coordinate. I say should on purpose.

Once you find your perfect material, the tailor takes your measurements, you leave it there for a few days and then come back to pick-up your custom-made suit. It should cost you less than $10 if you are a fairly thrifty shopper like us. Here is the tailor altering a shirt he made me. Notice the manual sewing machine...better in case there are power cuts.

I have this plan to go buy a lot of beautiful fabric (not hard here) and have a few dresses and maybe even a pant suit made before I head back Stateside. I have full confidence that whatever he makes will look like I got it at JCrew or the Gap!

Thanks for visiting.

12. He is risen! He is risen indeed!

2009-04-12T12:36:00.004-04:00

"You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Since we now have been justified by His blood, how much more shall we be saved from God's wrath through Him! For if, when we were still God's enemies, we were reconciled to Him through the death of His Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through His life! Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ through whom we have now received reconciliation."
Romans 5:6-11

These are the verses I read this morning. Praise God for His love. Even while we were still in sin, disobedient and rebellious, Christ died for us! For me. For you. His death and resurrection provided the only way for us to be reconciled to God, to have a perfect relationship with God...the kind that Adam and Eve had before the fall. They walked with Him, talked with Him and had an intimate relationship with the Creator God. Then they disobeyed. The perfect relationship was broken; they were separated from God. Their new destiny: death.

We all fall short of God's glory. We all sin and, therefore, we all face death. But, Jesus came. The perfect, sinless sacrifice. Beaten, ridiculed, mocked and murdered. All for love. To reconcile us to God. To free us from sin and death. He is the Way, the Truth and the Life. Only through Jesus can we have a right relationship with God. "That if you confess with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved...for, 'Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.'" (Romans 10:9,13)

I pray that each of you knows this as truth and already have a right relationship with God through Jesus. If not, I pray that you will ask God to show you truth. He will only show you Jesus.

Moving on...

I heart Easter!! What a great time it is to share with friends, family and neighbors who don't know about the One, True God.

We had a great day. It began with a little Jesus time and then a gift from the Easter bunny (also known as Reba's mom...have a told you how wonderful it is to have a mother in the house?).

special delivery

Then, we attended an Easter church service. Afterwards, we began to set up and prepare for the Easter celebration we hosted in our home for our neighbors.

First, the kids came over. They heard the Easter story through resurrection eggs (google it). We had cake and played a few games. They were so fun and so attentive to the Easter story. They asked great questions. We pray that they will hide the things they have heard in their little learning hearts and one day follow Him. Here are some pictures.

Afterwards, the women and older kids came over for a viewing of The Passion of the Christ (sorry, I didn't get any photos). Boy, was it powerful. I sobbed and sobbed, of course. I hadn't seen it since I watched it in the theater. All the women were very moved and asked a few questions. Some of them had seen it before, but it was the first time for many. We are asking for fruit and hoping to see even more interest from them in days to come. It got late, and we didn't get a good chance to have a discussion. Our plan is to go by our friends' homes individually to talk to them about the movie and what they saw.

As we sat around tonight talking about the day, the one thing we all talked about as being so amazing and such a privilege is that we have been the first to tell them Truth. Awesome.

11. Egg Hunt

2009-04-11T05:17:00.004-04:00

Every year at Easter ex-pats (also known as "foreigners") in the city get together for an Easter Egg Hunt. Hunting eggs probably seems a little ridiculous to nationals (you should have seen the looks I got just carrying along brightly colored eggs in an auto...what? is that unusual?).

Here are a few pictures from the day.

craft table

relay races

the Easter story

and, of course, the egg hunt